Abundance is a State of Being: How to Feel Abundant When Money Isn't Flowing
Dec 29, 2025Scarcity has nothing to do with numbers, and being in overflow doesn't either.
Last week, I posted a "ask me anything" on my instagram stories, and a woman sent in this question:
"How do you start feeling abundant when money isn't flowing? Where does one start?"
Abundance is about way, way, way more than money. In fact, money has not much to do with abundance at all! You can have a lot of money, and not be abundant at all, or very little, and be incredibly abundant.
Abundance is a state of Being.
Ways to BE Abundance:
- Appreciation, truly having and Being present with what we do have is incredibly important and a step that will not allow itself to be missed. Appreciation Appreciates it grows everything around it into more of itself.
- Allowing yourself to really take in and allow whatever is bountiful in our lives to nourish us. To slow down and take in the sky, our friends, our children, our dinner. To connect with Self Love, with feeling taken care of by God. Have what you Have- and really receive it and take it in!
- In the trauma vortex, perspective is very narrow. Vision is small. As we move into the present moment, field of abundance opens, we shift into a space of infinite possibilities. The more we spend time with deep presence, the more we are aware of the infinite abundance we are blessed with.
I know so many people who have lots of money, and feel incredibly scarce.
I know others who live in a state of overflow, give and receive deeply, and their bank account seems to have very "little:
I've worked with millionaires, a couple times even with a billionaire, and with celebrities and other humans with access to a lot of external wealth and fame over the past few years, and I've learned to know this in every single one of my bones: being scarce has nothing to do with numbers, and being in overflow doesn't either.
You get to BE abundance. It is a state of Being that you get to create in each moment.
The flow follows your internal state. We shift the inside, and the miracles follow.
The woman received my response, that I posted on my stories and she reached out in DM to ask another question:
"Just one more question, curious your take, if there's something that's really important to me... I desire it from a real place... Should I buy it even if budget wise it doesn't match up... But I trust Hashem wants this for me too?"
This was my response:
I know that so many others might have this question inside of them... so that is so generous to yourself and others to ask!
My answer to this is as follows:
I have not yet come across any moment in my life that I felt that this was a question for me to answer. The answers are only always, never not, inside of YOU.
Making choices, taking responsibility for your choices, and standing behind your choices is the most empowering experience we can have. It's the way we walk with Hashem.
Personally? I've taken leaps of faith before... in this area of my life. And my choice is to not tell ANYONE to do the same. My deepest desire is to not take your Will, your compass, your reckoning and wrestling., and learning away from you by knowing something you don't about yourself.
You have what it takes inside of you to know the answer to this. It takes inner work, on both the level of identity and the nervous system...
The gold you will receive on the other side of this inquiry is EVERYTHING.
I do work with people to support them in expanding their nervous system, identity and life. Never to tell them what to do, and always to support them in having WAY more capacity to Self, agency, God, and aliveness.
