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Expecting Miracles Instead of Expecting the Other Shoe to Drop

Oct 22, 2025

“I realized I was healing in a deep way when I recognized that my system is more primed to expect unexpected miracles right around the corner than to expect "the other shoe to drop."

One of my best friends and I do session exchanges with each other, every other week we trade and offer each other a holding space to keep Becoming.

This week when it was my turn to receive I spent some time marveling with her how amazing it is to keep seeing my system oriented towards consistently expecting unexpected miracles to "come out of nowhere" then to expect the "other shoe to drop" "out of nowhere."

A lot of the growth edge for people choosing to walk a path of allowing more: healing, abundance, awareness, and growth into their lives is living with the fear of "losing it all" or "all of it going away" I know many of you reading this may resonate. There's almost a fear of having the "good" because that comes right along with a perceived loss that will be so disappointing

The orientation towards miracles instead of "the other shoe dropping" doesn't eradicate challenges, grief, or humanness... it just softens everything and adds a layer of delight, deep faith and a soft hope in every single moment.

I'm so grateful for this realization in me, and I've been watching this in my clients as well in miraculous ways

In 3 different sessions with clients today we paused for a moment to recognize how drastically they had shifted their nervous system, orientation, perspective, way of thinking, being, and feeling in such a relatively short time. This work is really incredibly potent, precise, and deeply effective.

There's a point in all of our growth journeys where we start to see and notice in ourselves and others way more healing than wound or hurt or defenses. Where we notice we are remembering quicker. Where we are hoping, having faith and finding creativity sooner. Where we remember to go inside to love something, instead of outside to fix something.

My blessing to all of you is that you can feel the orientation shifting inside you You don't need to be "healed" or "perfect" to be worthy of a new orientation around your life, your vision, and how you see the world.

I hope you receive this blessing and create this for yourself, it's really a special space to live from.

It's what I most deeply desire for me, for you, for all of us.

Much love,
Rivky

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