I once heard a quote that said there are no failures, we either win or we learn. When we start to look at the world through the perspective of the soul's journey, blame ceases to exist. We stop blaming ourselves, we stop blaming others, we stop blaming our life, and we start to learn, understand, and extract. "What is the lesson here that my soul is wanting to learn?", or, as I say in my Brooklyn accent, "Nevah waste a good Triggah”, because when we can really allow ourselves to extract the lesson from any circumstance- relational, existential, personal, spiritual-we really get to get under to the root of what's happening and shift it. When we learn the lesson, it ceases to exist, and it works every single time.
