I have a unique perspective on confusion and indecision:

I believe that if you are confused or indecisive, you are hijacked/allowing yourself to be taken over by an energy that is not you.

Let me explain: 1) This can be a completely unconscious process. There is no shame in the game of expanding our soul. 2) I believe that we are never confused and always guided and know. Which means when we feel confused, we are plugged into a program, energy, or frequency that isn't us - isn't who we truly are.

For example, when you are confused, you may be enmeshed into someone else's energy field and therefore have difficulty making a decision on your own because you are trying to manage their emotions you have unconsciously taken on. That can be for reasons of people pleasing, and many other reasons that you may never know, simply because they aren't yours.

Ever felt someone else's intensity make you lose your integrity? When someone else has a strong feeling, opinion. When someone else cries or gets angry, and suddenly, what was clear to your soul can start to feel murky. Maybe you are flooded with unbalanced compassion for them, and an urge to save someone else or yourself, an urge to fix or teach or coerce someone or yourself, or an urge to judge someone or yourself.

Don't allow their intensity to make you lose your integrity - your own soul alignment.

Energetic hygiene is the key to any confusion and indecision in your field. No one besides you gets to hang out in your energy field.

That is for your soul alone.

I'll say this in the nicest way possible: Kick any energies out of your field (whether they are discordant or really nice) and return to your home frequency.

Often. Always. Everyday.

Protect your clarity like your life force depends on it. Because it does.

If you tend to collapse in people pleasing or enmesh or fuse with others, it's especially important to keep your boundaries and discernment high, on what is yours and what is not yours.

Permission to have boundaries and compassion, and discernment and standards all at the same time.

You are allowed to level up. You are allowed to value yourself. You are allowed to hold yourself and others to new standards.

You don't need to subscribe to every energy around you. You can still be a truly kind person and choose to energetically "leave the chat"

Actually, please energetically leave the chat, every day. It's good for your soul to marinate in its home frequency. It's when you do your best work. It's when you are your most you.

You are the most precious person in your entire life.

Also, people ask me all the time: How do I become "psychic?" How do I heighten my intuition? How do I trust myself with my knowing?

My answer always is: Unless you were born knowing you have intuitive gifts (and this is important even if you already do), boundaries and energetic hygiene, and being in your own frequency is the surest way to your psychic gifts, and to hear and experience beyond the veil.

Love you, in the most clear way I possibly know how to. I won't enmesh with you because my deepest desire is to connect with you.

(How many ways can I say, your soul is so, so, so, so precious?)